You tell me… is this bullshit or fertilizer?
I watched an Oprah rerun today (yeah I watch Oprah, don’t judge me) the show was talking about women and sex.
Yes, another sex related post.
The couple on the show were having sex issues, he wanted sex, but she didn’t want sex or him (her husband) for that matter. You could tell the hubby was really hurt when she revealed she had no interest in him or sex. He told her he was hurt because he showed his love by making love to her.
This isn’t the first time I’ve heard a man say this, the Mister has said the same thing which I didn’t readily believe. I am a part of my society and I believe men are sex driven for the release and the feeling of good pussy. Even though I would like to think I have an open mind, it’s hard for me to buy a man saying he’s wants to make love to show love. I’m not sure why I can’t make that connection, but for the life of me the first thing I think is bullshit.
Now I’ve made love before, I mean bring tears to your eyes, soul sating love, but I have to say that sex for the most part is a primal act for me.
So do men make love as a way of showing love, is this a real life concept?
Am I so jaded that I don’t want love mixed with my sex?
So is this concept of a man making love to show love bullshit or fertilizer?
Or am I putting men into such a small emotional box because I’m emotionally stunted?